Hullo Mr. ADMIN. Kindly Post For Me On The Forum Under Anonymity. And Thank You In Anticipation.
I'm A Man Aged 26, A Graduate From One Of Our Two Highest Learning Institutions.
The Problem At Hand Is That I Got Myself Locked Up Into A Dilemma Of
Having To Choose Just One Girl From The 3 I'm Currently Dating.
I Don't Wish To Tire And Bore The Reader By Getting Into Some Long, Unnecessary Narration Of How I Ended Up Becoming A Cheat.
Truth Is That Each One Of These Girls Has Really Been Good To Me, Each
In Her Own Inique Way. The Following Is What Each Of Them Did (Or Still
Does) For Me. [Names Changed For Security Reasons]: Tasha: Aged 21.
Dated Her For 3 Years Now. She Dropped Out Of Skul In Her 9th Grade
After She Failed. Started Work To Help Her Devorced Mom & 2
Siblings. This Girl Has Quite Bn Good To Me. Many Times When I Was
Hungry She Bought Us Food, And Do The Chores [She Never Slept Over]. One
Time I Started Drinking Heavily. Under The Influence I Wud Abuse Her
Verbally, And Once Or Twice She Caught Me Cheating; But She Forgave Me
Each Time I Apologized. So Eventually, I Learn t To Love Her Back & I
Reciprocated Her Each Act Of Love & Sacrifice. Her Problem,
However, Is That She's Immature, & Embarrasses Me Sometimes.
(1). She'D Never Understand If You Didn't See Her Even If U Were Studying For Tests.
(2). She Accused & 'pontelad' Via Inbox & Publicly [On Wall]
All My FB Female Friends Accusing Them They Are My Girlfriends,
Especially Shud Any Call Me 'dear' Or Say 'I Miss U'. I Talk To Her But
She Never Changes... And She Doesn't Want Any Talk About Her Going Back
To School. You'll Quarrel All Day Long. Lulu: Aged 24.
We Used To Be
Friends In 8th Grade In Lsk. Lost Contact But Met Again In 2013. We
Started Meeting Often As Friends. One Day, She Told Me She Used To Have
Feelings For Me Those Days. We Laughed About It And Forgot. One Day, I
Was Under The Influence Of Alcohol. I Proposed Love To Her & She
Accepted Right Away [She Doesn't Touch Alcohol]. Knowing What I Did Was
Wrong, I Told Myself I'D Just Be Plying With Her. But As I Speak, Lulu
Has Proven To Be A Very Wonderful Soul. She Has A Job, Am Still Pushing
Papers. But She Says, "It's Time". She's Been There For Me Since, Favour
After Favour. One Time I Just Informed Her I Would Be Travelling To
Kasama. She Shocked Me With K1,000 Cash. I Tried To Turn Down The Offer
But She Insisted. Another Time On My Mom's Birthday, She Got Her Some
Gifts Which I Told Mom I Bought them Myself [Mom Doesn't Accept Gifts
Anyhow]. Each Time I Look At Her, I Feel So Guilty & Stupid. She's A
Church Girl Too. She's Reserved, And Can Encourage When She Means To.
Nalia: Aged 23. Teacher By Profession, Awaiting Posting.
I've Known
Her Longer Than The Other Two (Since Primary School). With The
Inexperience Of Boyhood, She Was The First Girl To Whow I Ever Expressed
My Interest Of Wanting A Girlfriend. She Kept Turning Me Down Until I
Gave Up When We Were In High School. During That Time, She Would Accept
My Gifts, And Academic Help But Her Lips Never Knew "Thank You".
Fast Forward>> In 2017 When I Was In My 4th Year, She Suddenly Went 'easy'.
Our Houses Are About 30 Minutes Apart So We Meet Quite Often And Relate Like We Date.
Honestly, This Girl Is The Prettiest Thing I've Ever Seen. But She's
Too Proud Bcoz Of Her Beauty. More Than Once I Tested Her If She Could
Help In Times Of Lack, I Clearly Saw She's A Stingy Girl Who I Doubt If
She Will Love My Family. Despite Her Attitude, I'm So Obsessed With This
Daughter Of Eve. There Is Nothing Good I Can Point At That She Did For
Me But She's The One I Give My Most Attention To Above Tasha And Lulu
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